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Post by LMC on Jun 19, 2008 10:48:10 GMT -6
putting tine62888's friend in my prayers and all the people involved in the flooding. i don't remember the floods in '93 for i was only one year old. =]
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Post by Cheza on Jun 19, 2008 14:50:51 GMT -6
Hey Chels, SHUT IT
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Post by Levis12 on Jun 20, 2008 8:10:10 GMT -6
im lighting a candle for my friend jenna... and praying she calls me back! or texts me... Did you get in contact with her???
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Post by tine62888 on Jun 20, 2008 15:52:31 GMT -6
yes i did... she is ok! thank god. she called me at about 4 yesterday afternoon.... she was out at the beach at myrtle beach and didnt take her phone with her. but im still concerened for her cause i know shes not in a good place... but so far so good.
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Post by Levis12 on Jun 20, 2008 21:31:40 GMT -6
Glad to hear she is okay.......she is lucky to have a good friend in you.
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Post by tine62888 on Jun 20, 2008 21:52:45 GMT -6
yeah... i just wish she would see that.... im so worried about her and i dont know what to do....
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Post by Levis12 on Jun 22, 2008 10:30:15 GMT -6
yeah... i just wish she would see that.... im so worried about her and i dont know what to do.... Can you have a heart to heart with her and ask her whatzup...what is weighing heavily on her mind? Is there a councelor you know of to ask questions too? Are you comfortable talking with her family...and asking if they noticed any differences in her...and that you are so worried about her? This is one scary topic.....
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Post by HY on Jun 22, 2008 10:55:07 GMT -6
I agree, tine. You really need to try to talk to her. And if she really sounds down and ready to end it - you need to talk to her family or a counselor. It sounds like she needs some professional help. Maybe this is a call on her part looking for help.
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Post by Levis12 on Jun 22, 2008 15:06:27 GMT -6
I agree, tine. You really need to try to talk to her. And if she really sounds down and ready to end it - you need to talk to her family or a counselor. It sounds like she needs some professional help. Maybe this is a call on her part looking for help. I totally agree.....I mentioned too...that this sounds like a cry for help...sometimes wanting others to notice the warning signals being sent out.
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Post by tine62888 on Jun 22, 2008 17:45:57 GMT -6
i have been talking to her alot lately and i know some of the reasons why she is feeling the way she is feeling. at least she is talking to me. but she seems to be holding up for now... i dont think she will try anything any time soon. so thats good at least.. but i keep telling her to go see someone but she is saying no... and its not like i can force her to either... and her parents know whats going on they just choose to ignore everything. which is a really sad case.
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Post by Levis12 on Jun 23, 2008 8:22:33 GMT -6
i have been talking to her alot lately and i know some of the reasons why she is feeling the way she is feeling. at least she is talking to me. but she seems to be holding up for now... i dont think she will try anything any time soon. so thats good at least.. but i keep telling her to go see someone but she is saying no... and its not like i can force her to either... and her parents know whats going on they just choose to ignore everything. which is a really sad case. Geez....being an ostrich ...and burying your head in the sand will not make the problem disappear!!! Her parents should wake up and smell the coffee!!! At least she has a good friend in you....your trying.....your listening...your her friend. Kudo's to you!!
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Post by tine62888 on Jun 23, 2008 8:26:19 GMT -6
yeah and i think its helping so as long as she keeps talking to me i think she can make it through all of this.
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Post by Cheza on Jun 24, 2008 20:44:25 GMT -6
Sometimes all a person who is down needs is a friend with a good shoulder to lean on and ears that are willing to listen. Tine, continue to be her angel on earth.
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Post by tine62888 on Jun 24, 2008 20:55:08 GMT -6
i will( things are gonna be ok #cheer# she is finally being herself again! yay! we have decided that next year at college we are gonna live together. she was supposed to live with her best friend codi who was my roommate last year but codi has decided that she isnt goign back next year.... and so alot of her issues were coming from that cause codi has stopped talking to jenna... its been about 3 weeks since they have talked.... all because jenna was completely wasted when codi told her she wasnt coming back next year and jenna wasnt to happy and stuff.. but again codi could have waited till the next day and she knew jenna was drunk so idk. and jenna and codi were like closer then super glue and two fingers! or peanut butter and jelly lol. so its been hard for her... since codi wont come out and say she doesnt want to be friends anymore... but jennas mom told jenna that I have been her best friend through everything this past year and stuff.... even though everyone thought that was codi.. but like i said..... idk if they will salvage the friendship or not.. i hope so... im just glad to have my buddy back! #comfort# #smile3#
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Post by Cheza on Jun 24, 2008 21:27:41 GMT -6
Glad to hear good news, Tine! Keep doing what you do.
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